Do we really listen to our children?

Do we really listen to our children?

Did you know that the average 4 year old ask about 400 questions a day? Four Hundred Questions.

With questions come decisions, According to multiple sources on the Internet, the average amount of remotely conscious decisions an adult makes each day equals about 35,000. In contrast, young children only make about 3,000 decisions each day.

Our family is past the 4 year old stage, and I could not find a solid number for the number of questions that are asked as a child matures, but I have noticed that the questions are less frequent.   Yet when questions are asked they are typically deep and catch me off guard. I find myself answering it like I did when I got 10 questions an hour.  When I set back I have to ask myself, do I really listen to my kids.

I do know that when children ask about faith, it is deep and powerful.  It is obvious that they have a relationship with God.   It is then our jobs to help that relationship grow.  When I get hit with a question that is just too much for the moment, or that I have not a clue how to answer there are many ways to respond:

“I don’t know.”

“Why don’t you ask ___________.”

“Ask your mother/father.”

“That is a great question, let’s look for the answer together.”   This last response is how you can work together to find the answers.  This leads to great conservations and will help your child AND you grow in your faith.

“Let the children come to me, and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of God. Truly, I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child shall not enter it.”
(Luke 18:15-17 ESV)

But as for you, continue in what you have learned and have firmly believed, knowing from whom you learned it and how from childhood you have been acquainted with the sacred writings, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus.
(2 Timothy 3:14-15 Holy Bible ESV) - See more at: http://ministry-to-children.com/bible-verses-about-children/#sthash.er7ZRKIV.dpuf

But as for you, continue in what you have learned and have firmly believed, knowing from whom you learned it and how from childhood you have been acquainted with the sacred writings, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus.
(2 Timothy 3:14-15 Holy Bible ESV) - See more at: http://ministry-to-children.com/bible-verses-about-children/#sthash.er7ZRKIV.dpuf

So, as the questions come, take a deep breath and listen.  You will both learn a lot in the process.

See you on Sunday!